So I hear you have been through hard times. That means you are a survivor and that your tough. I like that. Hard times teach us...

It starts with vision. Make a clear picture of what you want. I know you heard that before, so let's go deeper. This can be a tricky...

Don't Steal. Not because it's wrong. Not because you will get punished... Because it's weak. In order to take something from someone...

Self Worth comes before achievement. This flies contrary to what many are taught. They were taught that self worth follows achievement....

You love your kid. So when they shout out, "I Hate You!" it can break your heart. Find out why this hurts. Are you hurt because of...

Recently we worked with one of our students who is an outstanding student. She gets great grades but because of her exceptionally high...

I've spent the last 30 years helping parents change their child's behavior without punishment. I put together a FREE 3 day course for...

Did you ever see "Stand and Deliver?" The movie inspired me to become a teacher. If you don't have time to see the whole movie, at least...

Inverse thinking is a powerful technique for getting what you want. It requires you to think about the opposite of what you want. So......

I've been on both sides of this equation, (which is ironic because I teach this stuff). I was a troubled teen, and as a parent had a...

We have 6 senses. You know of the five physical ones. The 6th is you emotions. Just like touching a hot stove will activate your sense...

The feeling that you want to generate is the feeling that you have this inside of you before it presents itself in the real world. You...

An excuse is similar to a justification, except that it relies on something physical instead of a mental energy block. An excuse is any...

When you are training, you go through phases of awareness and proficiency. You gain skills, and as you practice them, you become more in...

When you are ready to get into the Zone, you have to leave certain things behind. One of them is the feeling of blame, or of placing...

In the last post, we told you about the Zone. When you are in a session and you enter the Zone, you are graceful and agile. The Zone is...

Head, shoulders, elbow, wrists, knees, hips, feet When you are doing martial arts training, you will feel “off” when a technique is brand...

Our teaching philosophy is based on that oppositional harmony that we talked about before. What that means is that you have to utilize...

Positive Thinking Mastery makes use of the law of oppositional harmony and the redirecting of force and mental energy as a way to...

The key to developing poise is the acceptance that some things are outside your control. It’s natural to want to have control over...